Best Crystals For Self Love, Self Confidence, Clarity & Courage

In order to improve ourselves, our lives and our relationships we need first to learn the tricky discipline of Self-Love. When we talk about loving ourselves many people become uncomfortable.

For some, Self-Love is confused with self-indulgence or plain selfishness. Nothing could be further from the truth. Self-Love means taking excellent care of yourself so that you can be at your best at all times, physically, emotionally and mentally. Even if you see your sole purpose in this life to be that of taking care of others, you must first know how to take care of your own needs. You cannot serve from an empty cup, and if your cup has run dry through burn-out or self-neglect you will not be in a position to help and support anyone else.

Crystals for Self-Love

One of the best crystals for Self-Love is Rose Quartz. Indeed, this delicate pink variety of Quartz is the stone of Unconditional Love in all respects, whether this is human love, self-love, love of family, friends or significant others or love of the Divine and Spirit.  Rose Quartz emanates soft, gentle vibrations of love that are nevertheless very persistent and powerful. Treat yourself and your space to several chunks of this relatively inexpensive crystal to ensure that you are always reminded of the importance of taking excellent care of yourself.

Rhodochrosite

This crystal usually occurs in shades of deep pink shading into red, and is known as the crystal of compassion. To love yourself you must show yourself compassion. You must be able to forgive yourself for your mistakes as readily as you forgive your loved ones for theirs. Rhodochrosite is a good choice for this as it is traditionally associated with forgiveness on all levels and with emotional renewal. In metaphysical belief, this stone is also linked with Inner Child work and past life regression. Many people use it as a focus for reflecting on their own behavior and on patterns that may have their roots in earlier experiences or in a past life. When you feel compassion for your former self you are able to feel an increased sense of self-worth, which is essential for self-love.

Crystals for Self-Confidence & Self-Esteem

Having confidence in yourself, in your opinions and beliefs and in the way you behave in the world is vital for your own peace of mind and happiness. There are many crystals traditionally associated with self-confidence that you can wear as a daily reminder.

Rhodonite

This stone is especially good for balancing the Yin and Yang forces within the etheric and energy bodies. If you have an excess of Yang energy you may find that you are aggressive rather than assertive, that your masculine energy overshadows the softer, more passive female energy and that this leads to confrontations with others and conflict within the self. Rhodonite is traditionally associated with working through difficult situations decisively and positively, without judgement of yourself or others, and many people wear it as a reminder to trust their own abilities and discernment. In metaphysical belief it is a grounding stone that keeps you connected to the stabilizing energies of the earth, and it is said to open the Heart chakra to the love that is always around us.

Crystals for Courage

An excess of timidity can hold us back. We all need to find courage at times, if not daily, to stand up for what we know to be right, to speak our own truths regardless of what others may say or think, or simply to face the many demands our modern lives place upon us.

Tiger’s Eye

This crystal is one of the most commonly used stones for personal protection. In metaphysical belief it is a symbol of protection against ill wishing from others, curses or manipulative behavior. Wear or carry Tiger’s Eye as a symbol of your personal power. This stone is all about vitality, strength, courage, and confidence. In metaphysical belief it has a high vibration associated with steadiness and resolve.

Carnelian

Carnelian is a lower chakra stone, most closely aligned with the Sacral chakra. It is traditionally associated with natural creativity and with confidence in the face of challenges. Carnelian is a stone of self-belief and self-empowerment, and many people carry it as a reminder to keep going in difficult circumstances and to hold on to their will power.

Crystals for Clarity of Mind

When your thoughts feel scattered it is harder to take care of yourself or to give yourself the attention you need. In metaphysical belief, certain stones are associated with focus and clarity, and many people use them as reminders to set distractions aside.

Amazonite

Amazonite has a soothing vibration that in metaphysical belief is associated with letting go of negative thoughts. Wear it as a reminder to focus on what really matters, to stay in the present and to meet whatever is in front of you with a positive outlook.

Blue Quartz

Most blue or blue-green crystals are associated with mental focus and clarity. Blue Quartz is especially valued in this regard, as it carries the master crystal reputation of Quartz along with a close affinity to the Third Eye and Throat chakras. Use Blue Quartz in meditation when you require clear, unclouded guidance about a particular issue.

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These are traditional beliefs, not claims of physical effect. Crystals are not a substitute for medical care.